Thursday, December 30, 2010

Diddle Diddle Dumpling, My Son John



One day this fall, I got fed up trying to figure out what was happening every night. I complained to Michael, "What the heck is happening? Every time I get John out of his sleepsack, he is wearing ONE slipper!" He replied with the old nursery rhyme.

Diddle, diddle, dumpling, my son John,
Went to bed with his trousers on;
One shoe off, and one shoe on,
Diddle, diddle, dumpling, my son John!

We've since found that other slipper and tried to keep them on him during his days of toddling around our house.(Yes, he finally started walking right before he turned 18 months old!! So, you know how we have these nicely refinished (well, once upon a time they were) wood floors...and how we have only put down a moisture barrier and not insulation in our crawlspace, right? Well, our floors are freezing. Last week, John's lips turned blue on 3 different occasions. Once he was outside wearing a bunting and no mittens (won't keep them on), and the two other times he was walking around the house, sometimes without his slippers. We're not totally sure that the blue lips are because he was cold or if they are related to something going on with his body.

On Tuesday, he had his 18 month checkup with our beloved Dr. Hosford. She checked him all out and determined that he looks pretty good. Here are the stats taken at 18.5 mos:
Height: 33.5" (75th%ile)
Weight: 23 lb 9 oz (25th %ile)
Oxygen count to check if the blue lips were related to asthma - 100% (right on!)
and for his meds:
continue giving him 15mg Prevacid tablets for his reflux, but after another month, try to gradually wean him from it (over 2 weeks go to 6 pills/wk, then after 2 more weeks, decrease to 5 pills/wk, etc.)
continue giving him .25mL of budesonide (Pulmicort) through the nebulizer daily

AND... she heard a heart murmur again at this visit. After much deliberation about whether or not to get it checked out, she decided that the blue lips earned him an echocardiogram. You'll remember (or maybe not) that our 3rd post on the blog was to share the results of the same procedure with Thomas. Thomas was determined to have a PFO, which should not present many problems for him in the long run.

John will be going to get his ECHO on Fri., Jan 7th in Cary, a mere 35 minutes from our house. Even though we live within biking distance from UNC Children's Hospital, our new High Deductible Health Plan complicates things. We're thankful for insurance, for sure, but this new plan is pretty shocking to our minds and to our cashflow. We are required to pay the first $3000 of our medical bills out of pocket, then we will start having some things covered. The additional cost of being seen at the hospital is about $500, so we are making arrangements (yay, Grandma and Papa!) to get Amelia to preschool and to keep Thomas at home while we take John to his appointment, to delay having to spend the extra $$ this week. Actually, since Michael started his new job this fall, we've had the privilege of paying most of our medical expenses out of pocket. The most shocking call was Medco the mail order prescription drug company calling to say that our bill for 3 months of John's meds exceeded the amount they were able to charge our credit card - $900. We struggled with how to find ways to get him the meds. It has been challenging to pay for all these things out of pocket all Fall, then to turn around and start paying another $3000 starting Jan. 1. Such is life, I guess. We are thankful that God continues to provide for us and love us despite our faults. We pray John's procedure will come back with just normal findings. He's a good little guy! Hope you enjoy the picture of him taking a break from saying his few words (mama, dada, cheers, ball, stool, shoes, thank you, and a host of grunting, growling, squealing, screaming, and screeching noises) to get what he wants. Today he's wearing a backpack for the first time, and he allowed me the privilege of putting it on his arms instead of around his neck like he prefers to wear things (costumes, sleepsack, my pj's, etc).


Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Beware of our Spiderman!

We don't know exactly how the song goes, so maybe my super hero-loving brothers Luke and Caleb can teach it to us later. For now, he're our Spiderman singing his song... enjoy it!


Sunday, December 12, 2010

Amelia's First Sleepover!

This weekend the Thomas family cousins (and grandparents) were all getting together in Atlanta. John urped on Wednesday night, so we decided on Thursday to cancel our trip just in case he continued. Friday came and John was totally fine, still didn't have any fever or other symptoms. We decided to go ahead with our travel plans. Amelia went to preschool while we packed, so we picked her up before noon and headed to GA. We had lunch and snacks in the car, then finally dinner in the car as well. While riding reclined and rear-facing in the dark van, refluxy John urped again. We'd promised family members that if anyone threw up, we'd just turn around and go home. So, we did. We were about 30 minutes away from Allie and Rob's house. Amelia was SO bummed about missing out on all the fun with cousins Claire, Stephen and Elizabeth. With the help of caffeine and the van's DVD player, we made it back home around 1:40 a.m. It taught us that we (sort of) can do a 14 hour drive if necessary.

Every December, it usually happens that the Thomas Family Christmas and Cousin Campbell's birthday party are on the very same day. Amelia almost always has to miss her same-age cousin's fun party while we travel to visit my family. Since we were back home, Thomas, Amelia and Michael decided to fancy up on Saturday morning and head back down the interstate to High Point. They all enjoyed the fun surprise party at Chick-Fil-A! After the party, Amelia got a special invitation to spend the night with Campbell. This was nearly a dream come true since she spoke her wish last month, "Oooh, a star...I wish I could live with Campbell!" Aunt Amber and Uncle Mark promised to take good care of her, so Michael dropped her off for the night. Things were so quiet at our house while she was away. I wonder how it was for them having 4 children to care for during the evening. Yikes.

The next day, we all met for lunch in Chapel Hill to get our girl back. She said that sleeping on a bunk bed, wearing a gown, brushing her teeth by herself, and playing Polly Pocket with Campbell were so much fun. Amber said that Amelia was so well-mannered and pleasant. By the end of lunchtime, she was back in our care and screaming about most everything. Amelia says that she's ready to go back tomorrow or maybe go live with their family for most of the time when she does not have school.

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Snow Day!


This afternoon, we were working on our Christmas cards when we looked out the window to see snow falling down! Shocking, since no one had even mentioned there was a chance. After I returned from a neighbor's funeral, enough had gathered on the ground for some real fun! We all got bundled up to play in the yard and stroller over to a nearby Chinese restaurant. We played with Aspen, Miles and Lex (neighbors), then took one neighbor, Mr. Madi (Esme's dad) with us on our journey. Esme and her mom, Zoe, are out of town. We missed them! On the way home, we found a big field of fresh *PERFECT* snow in front of the Burger King on 15-501. We crafted up a snowman for each of us, then left them there to play over night. We look forward to seeing them as we drive by the intersection each day! Click on the picture to see more of our adventure!